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Elise Matthesen ([personal profile] elisem) wrote2025-08-04 11:01 pm
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notes from my birthday month

 Today I opened the front door to see if the mail had arrived, and found that the clump of sunflowers at the bottom of the first section of front steps was full of goldfinches, who exploded upward. They we unutterably beautiful, and so bright they seemed to shine with inner light. 

It was a wonderful thing.

Seen anything wonderful lately?
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-08-03 04:35 pm
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Peach ice cream

Of local interest: JP Licks has fresh peach ice cream.

They didn't make any last year, because there was no local peach harvest, and I'm ery glad to see it this year: they make really good peach ice cream. Not all their flavors are as good as this, and I shop there primarily for this and the cucumber ice cream, when those are available.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-08-02 12:27 am
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Shakespeare on the Common

The three of us went to a play tonight: As You Like It, on Boston Common, presented by the Commonwealth Shakespeare Company. My beloveds bought seats in "tall" (normal-height) chairs for me and Cattitude, and a shorter chair for Adrian; the company sells a few of these in advance, an rents out additional short chairs while supplies last, for people who don't want to sit on the ground, which is free.

The weather was excellent for this, except that I was underdressed because it cooled off sooner than I'd expected. At intermission, I went over to the merchandise booth and bought a blanket. The blankets are intended mostly for sitting on, but I wrapped it around myself, over my hoodie, and draped it over my legs for warmth.

It's a good production, in a straightforward way. I liked the use of music, and the clowning and the choreographed fight scenes were good.
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sine nomine ([personal profile] sine_nomine) wrote2025-08-01 03:21 pm

I am the cyborg

I haz a port. And I think I am in love. Because they can do everything I need through it. Bloodwork. Infusions. Transfusions. Anesthesia. No trying to find a vein, any vein (thanks for nothing, Vancomycin!). So easy and simple. And CS protocol puts it in the arm (with spectacular bruising due to some extra work they had to do in order to get to the best spot). Unfortunately, a side effect of the surgery I will be having on my arms likely will render them ineligible for port placement there in the future (and it will have to be pulled prior to that surgery, which may be sooner than expected; we'll see). But one hopes there will not be a need for port placement in the future.

Onwards goo goo g'joob!
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-30 10:07 pm

Macintosh (computer)

I got Cattitude to disconnect my old Windows PC from the peripherals, move it out of the way, and put the MacBook in its place instead.

Moving over is being more annoying than I expected. Some of that is that I don't remember offhand where I left some files. But I also spent a bunch of time wrestling with the Mail app, which decided for no apparent reason that the server was offline. Restarting the machine didn't help, and then the problem went away on its own.

Also, the displays for just about everything have too little contrast, and the text is too small. I thought I'd found a way to change that for everything, but apparently not, so I've only done a few.

I'm probably done for tonight. I have an appointment to get my teeth cleaned early tomorrow afternoon, and I may not work on this further until I get home afterwards.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-29 02:54 pm

appointment with Carmen: naproxen, gut, lungs

This was the quarterly check-in so she can refill the Ritalin prescription, and cover anything else non-urgent.

I talked about how my gut is doing, and that I'm trying to reduce my use of naproxen (and NSAIDs generally) at the advice of the GI doctor. So far, that has meant waiting a little while before taking a naproxen because something hurts, and not taking it preventively for short walks. Airports, yes.

Carmen said there aren't a lot of good options, and recommended a turmeric supplement that someone she used to work for, who also did Ayurvedic medicine, recommended. I expressed some general skepticism, and specifically how much turmeric people had to eat to benefit. The recommendation is for a supplement that you tuck in next to your gum, so it's absorbed directly into the bloodstream. Carmen said "you can get it on Amazon," and Adrian pointed out after the visit that I should check the inactive ingredients carefully.

She also asked about my breathing, and I told her that recently, I've coughed up less phlegm after using the flutter valve, without having more trouble breathing. Less crap in my lungs is good, of course, and this means I won't worry much about skipping the flutter valve for things like travel and dental work. However, I'm basically sticking to the same twice-a-day schedule at least until the next time I see the lung doctor.

I also told Carmen about the strawberry allergy, and what symptoms I'd noted. I mentioned that I'm also probably allergic to stevia, and she made a note of both allergies.

The next appointment, in about three months, is for a physical exam, so longer and in person. At 1:30, so I can get lunch in Davis Square, weather allowing.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-28 05:13 pm

a productive day

I just got off the phone with a (genuinely) helpful person at Amalgamated Bank.

I've been talking to them in order to close a joint account in my and my mother's names, and the bank told me in June that the easiest way to do this would be to withdraw all the money and then have them close the account. In order to do that, I had to set up online banking, but only after adding my phone number to the account, which I did in June. Apparently the reason I couldn't log in to the online account after setting it up was that I'd written the password down wrong.

The person at the bank reset my password for me, and then told me how to link this account to an account at another bank. I'm waiting for the test deposits to hit my account, which may take a few days. After than, I can transfer the rest of the money.

Also, I got up in time to go for a walk this morning, to the grocery store and back, before it got too hot. It's a hot day in July, so the six things I bought included ice cream, Italian ices, and fresh blueberries.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-27 04:02 pm
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RIP Tom Lehrer

Tom Lehrer, a satirical songwriter and professor of math and musical theater, has died, age 97. A lot of his songs are satirical, often about then-current events, but most of those songs hold up pretty well, I think.

The Universal Hub post about Lehrer's death links to several videos.

Lehrer placed all his music in the public domain, including performance rights and the right to publish parodies and distortions, in the public domain a few years ago. Everything is available for download, though the website includes a notice that it will be shut down at some date in the not too distant future (relative to 2022.

Oh, and Lehrer also wrote my favorite song from the PBS program The Electric Company, "Silent E."
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sine nomine ([personal profile] sine_nomine) wrote2025-07-26 11:04 am

Life. Oy.

Well, on the plus side, there is noticeable difference in my legs. But that (plus all the other body changes have pointed up the size of my arms. Wow. I had no idea. Thankfully, dealing with them is the final surgery. And that might be January, not March. Dr. Surgeon made a change in his surgical plan with this last surgery, and we might be at five procedures not six. That would be astounding. Because then there's 2 months of 4 day a week MLD followed by cutting back on that (though, ostensibly, using the pump a bit, too) AND having time for a bit of PT.

SO. Still home in May (i.e. 7 months later than planned) but possibly looking like a very different human.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-25 01:47 pm

flu vaccines

This is health/health care, specifically vaccines, but it's related to US politics: If you live in the United States and are wondering whether you can get a flu shot this fall, yes they will be available. Whether you have to pay for it depends on what kind of insurance you have. The following applies specifically to the flu vaccine, and not to most other vaccines.

If you have Medicare, the seasonal flu shot is covered at no charge. For adults with private insurance, that's up to the insurer, and Dr. Jeremy Faust thinks most insurance companies will cover it. For children, either their insurance covers the flu vaccine, or they can get it from the "Vaccines for Children" program, but only in certain locations, which do not include the pediatrician's office. I'm linking to Dr. Faust's post, and his description is complicated because it's describing a complicated situation.

https://insidemedicine.substack.com/p/is-rfk-jr-calling-the-shots-who-can

That article says that federal law also has specific rules for three other vaccines--pneumococcus, covid, and hepatitis B--but neither Dr. Faust nor the website he links to say whether the same rules apply to them and to seasonal flu shots.

The information above is as of July 25, 2025.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-23 05:43 pm

Wednesday reading

I read fewer books than I'd expected to while I was in London. Recently finished:

The Grimoire Grammar School Parent-Teacher Association, by Caitlin Rozakis, is a fantasy novel about a magical school, from the viewpoint of a student's parent.

The Eights, by Joanna Miller, is about four women students who enroll at Oxford University the year the university starts offering degrees to female students. It's set in 1920-21, with flashbacks to earlier in the four women's lives. (The "eights" in the title means the residents of corridor 8.)

Between Silk and Cyanide: A Code-maker's War, by Leo Marks, describes working at one of the British government agencies that sent coded messages to underground agents in occupied Europe during the second world war. The author's job included deciphering messages that were mangled either in transit, or by the agent who encoded them, and coming up with new and hopefully better codes.

Evvie Blake Starts Over, by Linda Holmes, is about a woman who was in the process of leaving her husband when he died in a car accident, and her recovery from both the bad marriage and from all the people who expect her to be grieving him. A romance, more or less.

I enjoyed all of these, and don't remember who recommended any most of them to me ([personal profile] adrian_turtle just reminded me that she recommended The Grimoire Grammar School PTA). There's a range of moods here, less because of planning than because of what came up on my library hold lists.

None of these books are useful for my Boston Public Library summer reading bingo cards: I'd already filled the squares for "book with a name in the title" and "published in 2025." I have a book with a green cover on my desk, and got email while I was in London telling me that it had been automatically renewed for another three weeks.
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sine nomine ([personal profile] sine_nomine) wrote2025-07-23 08:32 am

Fast update

Yeah, I keep saying that, and it's never true.

Sunday night I had APPETITE. Like everything came roaring back in a way that, looking back, I can't remember for at least a couple years.

Monday I did insert medical activities here )

Then we went and got brunch at a decent deli conveniently located across the street from the doctor (I'd gotten takeaway from there before so already knew their latkes are GF and amazing; that no nightshades thing, I admit, goes out the window but what's with the thimbles of sour cream and applesauce?). Then to a Goodwill we'd seen a while back right near The Grove (our ostensible next destination) but we got glass so it was "book a Lyft to the Grove with a stop at home in the entirely opposite direction to drop that all off plus rollator". Then to The Grove, where much shopping and dining occurred (e.g., I have been missing having TY cards, stationery, etc. and lo, a Barnes and Noble appeared unto them).

Home more than 12 hours after we left. Certain parts of my body were more pleased about that than others but what struck me most was that I felt tired but not wiped out, and certainly not anemic. So I thought GREAT! I must be around 13. Apparently not, as the number was 12.1.

Yesterday was surgery. Lunch at deli again though body - which had been ALL PROTEIN ALL THE TIME - morphed into "Carbs and salad please!". I was stunned I wanted food at all, much less I was awake enough to eat but man, normalcy is my body's reaction to shock; collapse after. So slept at home then was awake but no brain.

Today I think is Wednesday Farmers Market and Capital One Café to deposit a check that I really would prefer go physically. Then post-surgical appointment including MLD and some wrapping. Then home to fall over.

Onwards.
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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-07-22 06:54 pm

more notes on the trip to London

In no particular order:

Mom wanted my cousin Janet to have two rings, and two specific books, and we couldn't find any of them, despite searching repeatedly. This doesn't make sense: if only the jewelry was missing, it might conceivably have been stolen, even though other appealing jewelry was in her bedroom closet, including the few items that are mentioned in the will. If it was just those two used books, maybe they were put away somewhere safe. But there's no reason the rings and books would have been in the same place, where we couldn't find them while going through things that thoroughly.

Mark was already planning to take all of Mom's unclaimed jewelry back to New Orleans, photograph it, and offer it to our cousins. Because the rings Mom promised Janet are missing, he's going to give Janet first pick. (He, Linza, and the three of us have already looked at it, and taken a few things.)


The whole process was very amicable. We weren't arguing over who could take something that wasn't specifically left to either me or my brother, but agreeing that Mom's crystal might be pretty, but wasn't worth trying to take home on the plane. Instead, Mark took a glass bowl that a friend of his made, and Andy took a small piece of cranberry glass. There were two envelopes of paper money; we split the pounds, and I told Mark to take all the euros, because he's probably going to visit the EU fairly soon.

There were more than enough good photos of Mom, her parents, and other relatives for me and Mark to take home, in some cases duplicate prints of the same picture. I labeled a few photos of people I wasn't sure I'd recognize if not, including a couple of pictures of my paternal grandparents, and one of Dad's older sister. I decided I wanted my mother's first US passport, from a trip to Europe in 1953, and her resident alien card (from before they were green).

Mark took some photos and documents home because he thought Janet would want them, and he was willing to schlep things for her. I'm not sure if that's because he's one of the executors of the will, or simple generosity.


As we were packing yesterday, we decided to take Mom's salt and pepper grinders: they have no sentimental value, but we've been unhappy with both our current pepper grinders and one of our salt shakers.

[personal profile] otter's comment reminded me that there also is, or may be, a gold charm bracelet that belonged to our grandmother. Janet asked to buy it from me and Mark, but we didn't find it either, only a different gold charm bracelet that belonged to Simon's first wife. The one we found is in the will as going to his daughter Liz, and after Mark took a picture, Liz confirmed that the bracelet we found was her mother's, and Janet didn't recognize it. We left that in the flat, because Liz will be in London in a few months. It's possible, though not likely, that my aunt Lea had the bracelet Janet wants, and that it's still in her and Dave's apartment. We asked Lea's daughter Anne, who doesn't have it but is going to ask Dave.

If Dave finds it, or if the bracelet turns up a few months from now at Mom's flat, we'll give it to Janet, not sell it, but we're waiting until the bracelet turns up before telling her that.

[I am adding to this as I think of other things that seem to belong here.]